There weren't supposed to be here until monday when dh2b is off. I was planning on not being here for it. But, they decided to come today instead to drop DD13 and the rest of her stuff.

ARRRRGGGGHHH

This means I have spent all day cleaning my house, which is fine, it needed it. I just really don't want to deal with his parents today. I have not seen them since I heard all of the BS they have been telling my 13 yr old about me. Half of which is DH2Bs fault, as they have no clue what really happened here 8 months ago.

His mother does not like me, thinks I am using her son (I guess for his fortune he makes selling mattresses??) , and now I am using DD to keep him. This was a very long talk that I had with DD. She was not supposed to say anything to me about all of this. Which of course lead to me telling DD the whole story of what happened, and then helping her to deal with her own emotions about it.

This fight he and I had, along with any other argument we have is not something we ever discuss with our children. This is the thing with he and I, we believe kids should be kids and worry about kid stuff and grown ups should worry about grown up stuff.

So I am angry with his mother. I have every right to be angry with his mother over all of this. If you don't like me, that is fine. You can tell your husband, you can tell your son who I have been dating for 4 years or you can grow a pair and tell me. You do not, however under any circumstances, have the right to talk trash about me to a 13 yr old child. Especially since I am the closest thing this kid has ever had to a mother.

His mother smiles in my face, hugs me as soon as she sees me and hugs me as she is leaving. Tells me how great my meals are, compliments me, and goes out of her way to be nice to my face. I HATE people like this.

His father, I have no problem with.

But I have a MAJOR problem. I am a brutally honest person who does not believe in beating around the bush and I don't pretend to like you if I don't. If I have a problem with you or your actions, I will tell you to your face and not go behind your back and tell everyone else. DH2B and DD are BEGGING me to play nice, which I will do for their sakes, but I am SO NOT IN THE MOOD!!!