Your idea of a password is so great! It sounds to me as if you & your husband are still working as life partners after suffering a really traumatic event that would destroy many marriages. That is amazing & maybe even a little miracle. You have much to build on. This is a great place to come both for information & for virtual hugs--you'll meet people who've been somewhere around where you are now & gotten beyond it. & if you just need towe'll listen. Probably won't even tell you that you shouldn't feel like that.

Here's some links to forums I think will be of interest:

Traumatic Brain Injury and Post Concussion Syndrome: http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum92.html

Caregiver Support: *http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum56.html

And here's the depression link, too. Maybe you don't need it, but considering what you're going through you might: http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum37.html

You can start a thread on either or both places or just copy your intro from here & use it to start a thread. That's where you'll get more action. The Caregiver's support forum isn't very active at times, but I'm hoping it will pick up. I cared for my dad--I needed this place then.

If there's something you need & can't find, ask. Ask questions, then ask more. Keep coming back. Get your husband on the forum, if that's the sort of thing he does (or is he the typical male patient?).

Take care of you. Your job starts there. Then you help him.