Well Deb if it makes you feel any better, I was asked if I was going to my niece's baby shower in Nov. They scheduled it the weekend of my birthday, of course I wasn't invited. But hey, whatever. I found out when my cousin contacted me to ask if I was going.

I have a feeling it will be at my father's house, so even if I was invited, I would not be there. I am so disappointed in my niece, in the last year she has thrown her entire life away.

SO I will sit over here in my little corner of the world and enjoy the extended family I have and say to H$## with the rest of them.