That is where I am stuck. I really want to b a support for her but they are really big energy suckers and will quickly try to drag me back under.

I got her a camera for her computer so maybe we skype. Even if she just smacks on the ear phones and talks to me from her room. its a free phone call for her, and would allow her to be able to get at least some sane avice in an insane home.

I may end up having to cut ties with her, so ...that will hurt, but for my own sanity...

Thanks for the hugs. I went back to bed and slept all night! I guess I needed some sleep. My back is screaming now, but I have my level head back.