So you've come to the "other side," eh? Not sure how to take that. You probably know how to navigate, but here are a couple of fast links for you--just in case:

Autism Forum: *http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum8.html
Hydrocephalus: *http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum14.html

Other folks will be along also, perhaps with other suggestions. I hope you find information as well as the kind of personal connections that will enlarge your support system. I'm delighted to make your acquaintance & hope to have an opportunity to get to know you & your family better.