I was just explaining to my cognitive therapist yesterday that my husband and I were in the same accident and after my black eyes and lump on my forehead went away, everyone just assumes I'm fine. They can see a knee brace, a bruise, a limp - they ask how he is but you and I have invisible hurts and it's really easy for people to forget that.
I don't know that I or anyone else can say anything to make you feel better, but if it helps to know that you're not alone, you're not wrong, and you're not crazy for feeling this way, then I hope this does help. I have nothing but the very highest hopes for all of us and a full recovery in a very short time frame - the waiting is definitely the hard part and I feel the same frustrations every day over it.
Hang in there and do whatever you have to do to take care of yourself and make sure you get what you need to enhance your recovery.
Crystal