Awwww Bobby,

i'm naught so sure about your naughtiness.... i bet if *I* cooked you spinach you'd love it, and chow it right down!!! 'course, potatoes are always irresistable aren't they? i used to be able to avoid them when my parents have them... have been less and less good about that.

it is much easier to stick to a restrictive plan when other ppl aren't eating things you REALLYWANNAEAT right in front of your face! i mean, NO RESPECK!!!! maybe can do it for a while. but when you are in weaker times and need comfort... well all my good intentions go to that very sweaty place in a wicked basket.

sometimes we must pick our battles. right now you are picking the battle against isolation over that of weight. it's ok that you can't do both. in time, perhaps you will, but you need to get strong enough. and going to the center will help.

for the past months i picked the income battle, at the expense of sanity. now, i am picking sanity over income. right now, i can't handle both battles either.

let's hope we both get stronger, fast.

love

~ waves ~