"WOW DEJ!"

The clarity and precise listing in this last post is amazing!

You are "spot on" for so many people here including the lurkers. You've brought thoughts to the forefront of my mind I have not experienced in a long time. Not knowing if I was falsely comfortable keeping them back there or was I really past that point. Maybe it's a coping mechanism and being human we never get past the ability of having our feelings hurt, either intentionally or unintentionally. Much of what you list is simple to identify, simple to say or write, but darn difficult and not easy to do.

Should I have moments of such clarity of thought. You are and continue to be an inspiration Dej.