You both are already one step ahead of where a lot are--usually we welcome & give links to forums that will be useful to new members interests etc & etc. You two, however, have already found the forum ... and posted there!

Well good for you. You've introduced yourselves. You'll get to know people with similar problems, who've been where you are & others who are where you'll be later. There forums can take a whole lot of the scary out of the future.

So ask your questions, ask more questions, get armed with all the information you can get. If you need help getting around or with anything else on the forums, someone will get you to a person with the answers you need.