Thanks Ellie for both posts. I actaully have decided the move is not in my best interest. I started to feel calmer and my headaches and stress got reduced. I still feel fusturated not having known my decision sooner but I am trying to let go of that. So we will have a few things to deal with.

So thanks for your feedback, much appreciated. I just wish others could appreciate how very important stability, less change and knowing one support system is in place really is. I know others with medical conditions are able to move more easily. But not me. I really think the not knowing around making a decision, much more travel being out of my routine has triggered,such high stress and fatigue and anxiety the three main triggers for seizures, headaches and even seizures that only affect my speech so I can not talk, something I have occasional but have had pretty regularly last two months.

So I feel now I am home and staying put, hopefully my partner can agree this is best also.
Thanks,Cedar