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Originally Posted by mjr535
when friends call me and tell me about their husbands, kids and jobs, it's called having a conversation.
When i call people and tell them about the latest round of doctors, test results and treatments, i am told that i am "venting,' and that they are happy to do something for me at long last.
I am tolerated, and my conversation is endured.
That's why i don't ask for help.
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oy - i think it may be a universal reaction --
i donot ask for help for exactly the same reaction !
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if you do need help from someone --- be very specfic about what you need and for how long --
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be well ---dvora