First, we are not Dr.s but it indeed sounds like epilepsy. All the things are kind of different for everyone. I don't remember mine & have people tell me that I had one & what happened. I do know I've had one though. I have complex partial seizures. Yes, like others have said, you oughta get a sleep EEG. You can go to sleep at night so maybe they will see what happens, on the eeg. It is nothing to be afraid of. They just put wires to your head with a sort of cream & you 'live' in the bed on camera. You can watch TV, read or do those puzzles in a book (like crossword or circle the word). I no longer have tonic clonics (grand mals) because I found meds to control those...you might! (When you sleep over tell the host what might happen & that it's nothing to be afraid of.)