What is the root fear that he has? The medicines should help,followed by love, and reassurence of the things that he fears,probably irrational things,will not happen. This type of thing is very complicated,and time,medication,and patience should help the situation.

Did his symptoms just come out of no where,or did he suffer a bad experience when he was growing up,or a young adult? Do they come,and go over the years,and keep coming back? BF