I think it is inevitable that sometimes there will be a huge disappointment in a loved one.
I've been through 3 biggies .... survived them, and moved on.
With time, you might find the disappointment is not so large anymore. This is not to minimize yours, at the moment. But I do understand.
I consider these, "bumps in the road".
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