Thanks, ya'll, for all the replies. I'm sorry so many can relate to this but glad I'm not alone in the way I feel.

I actually feel better and know that he's not doing anything to me. It's me that's making me feel like this. I know there will be times when I think my kids could make better decisions. But.......not every decision will be made based on what I think or want. And they shouldn't be. Now I feel very selfish for even feeling disappointed in the first place.

I think there should be a warning at the beginning of the "How To Grow A Kid" manual that states no matter how old your children are you'll always be affected by what they say and do!