Well, Kel. I know how hard this is.
I remember when my boys were in high school. Their dad had died two years earlier. They both wanted tatoos. One with the date of his death and the other wanted his initials.

Well, they both bugged me it seems like forever. I gave in. I think to them it was like I was still fighting with their dad....sad but true.
At least they were able to be covered up. They are 22 and almost 20 and they both have thanked me recently for letting them do it. I dont THINk it will be something they regret someday and come back and bite me.
Its so hard to let them grow up and make not so great decisions but I am
in awe of your wonderful boys and the job you have done.