Oh Donna,

i am so sorry you went through all that with the kitty and then the breach of confidence via the vet's (seems like a confidential sort of thing to me, but probably not legally and i guess they weren't informed or it never got noted in the chart.)

I just hope that you do NOT get an earful, that the foster parent will sort things out... between them and whomever might have a problem with your help.

I hope your husband's mood to go out for a steak last's long enough that you will feel well enough to take him up on it too.

WE are supposed to have a steakhouse outing soon too. we found an american-style steakhouse near us... there are a few differences in the dishes but it it's close enough so we like it well enough. we've been twice so far. We appreciate the spaciousness and informal atmosphere there too. Plus I get a chuckle every time because they have a young-sized statue of a cow at the entrance - I always stop to pet it! hee hee.

i too am concerned because i do not know if i will be ok enough to deal with the stimuli. I am not leaving the house right now. Being a family type restaurant there's high risk for at least one screaming kid... nails on chalkboard for me. so i guess we'll see.



~ waves ~