bizi - maybe this is fate, but I just came down from my daughter's room in tears because I am at a loss to help her realize that she is going to have to accept her life as it is now, and if she wants it to improve, she is going to have to make some changes within herself!! I honestly have done all I know how, and even my husband, with his Masters degree in Psychology, can't figure out how to help her SEE that!

We love her so, but I can only devote just so much of my days (what's left of them after work, etc) to her, and that she needs to WORK at making positive changes!! I haven't read much of it, but have decided to print out all 60 pages of that one link you listed, hoping I can glean some tips from there.

Thanks for your continued support and help to all of us here. Ya' know we luv ya'

Hugs, Jacquie