Yep, flew in to drop in. And you’re absolutely right about it perhaps cluing her in. And definitely my husband and kids help, but I just hate the 3-alarm fire for all of us. I mean, I can either have a clean house (or partially clean) and be so overcome with RSD when done that we won’t even get to visit, or I can just let it go. I’m letting it go. She should have called me first. Thanks for the response. This is the only place that I knew someone would truly get where I’m coming from.