I know exactly what you mean, although no one has flown in just to drop by...lol. I used to be a fanatical housekeeper and now if it causes me to have any pain, I don't do it. I just had a house meeting and told everyone that they are getting a trashbag at the beginning of the week. When it's full, they can throw it out by the SUV and their dad can take it to work to throw away. As soon as this downsizing is through my daughter is coming and organizing and THEN I am getting a cleaning girl twice a week to dust, vaccuum, and fold clothes....I am retiring and need to concentrate on this stupid disorder and my therapies!!