Dear Vrae,
I totally agree with what Jimbo just said...steer them to the nearest motel! If they see your house the way it is then tell them sorry I can't do things quickly anymore and need at least a month's notice in order to get my home cleaned up. If they don't get that hint then the heck with them. You don't need the stress nor the extra pain cleaning the house for them and it is not fair to your kids and hubby for added stress to them. They already deal with so much each day. I had another idea...when they call to say they are on the way...give them a bit of what they are doing to you and say "Well, we will all meet you at the restaurant (tell them the name of it). When you are all done you and your family get up and leave and tell them thanks so much for stopping by on your honeymoon and call me again when things settle down for you. lol that should keep them out of your hair for a bit. Good luck.
kathy d