We have to be prepared to say NO. You did what you had to do.
I may arrive at that point.
And a few generations on, someone may be uncovering my name on the internet & saying, "Eureaka!"

But better on the internet than face-to-face maybe.

We do what we can, & what we must. TWO great motivators.

I am sorry, though, Blue, for the pain you must feel. Sometimes life just sucks.