DH likes to kid me that I can't walk because "YOU'RE JUST NOT TRYING HARD ENOUGH." I refuse to be guilted by stories of others who try and can. I never ran marathons or climbed mountains. Not going to start now or be inspired. With MS I found it works in mysterious ways and will and want often don't factor in. I have no control as I try to move my leg or use my hand. I can do this but then one day I just can't.