My goodness, MM, you've surely got a full plate.

I'm so sorry you're dealing with so much especially after surgery. Do you have someone to help you with your children?
It's always hard to discover that the very doctors we depend on to give us answers are sometimes stumped themselves as to what is the matter with us.
I really hope you get to feeling better soon. And please steer clear of that hospital if you have to have any more procedures done. They're clearly not capable of handling even the most common of ailments.