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Originally Posted by gday
"How does he get money to pay for groceries? He does are shopping for us."
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You also wrote this:
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Originally Posted by gday
I think I let him have to much control. So, he still wants the control. It makes him very unsecure when someone else has to much control. He wants to pay bills, do grocery shopping, rent dvd, use computer, watch tv & so on without getting approval to spend.
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When you said "he wants to pay bills, do grocery shopping..." I thought you meant the present tense. That he was unhappy to not have that control right now.
Are you already allowing him to completely manage his own finances? Are you a Representative Payee in name only?
Please confirm--the situation is that you are currently receiving SSDI for yourself. You work a pt job. Your son receives SSI and auxillary benefits from your SSDI claim?