Hi, Jessi, I'm glad you found NT but sorry for what brought you here. It sounds as if they need to get a lot more aggressive in tracking down the source of your pain & spasms.
I'm fairly new myself, but someone wiser will be along to direct you to a forum where you'll find women who might recognize what you're up against.
This is a place of great experience, knowledge, generosity & caring. I hope you begin the feel its warmth soon, Jessi, & can get down to fully enjoying that new baby. Boy or girl, & what's its name?