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Old 10-18-2011, 07:10 PM
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You are right nightnurse. I keep having to tell myself that too, 'I don't have a cast, I don't look hurt, people don't understand'
Both my parents have medical backgrounds so I did not expect this response, but I guess even parents have their limits.
That is a great idea about showing her the videos, I hadn't thought of that. Thanks so much nightnurse.

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Originally Posted by nightnurse30 View Post
Its so frustrating when these things happen and people dont quite understand. Maybe ask your mom if she would watch the TBI videos i posted a few days ago to see if it will help her to understand what you are going through and maybe be more sympathetic. The title of the thread is "you look great! A funny and information TBI video" or something to that effect.

Our injury is hard for others to see. We dont have a cast showing we are injured or stitches...so its hard for people to see a "well looking person" and know all the subtle differences in the way our brain is processing information or putting it out there. Nevermind the pain, dizziness, and fatigue that goes along with our PCS. Hopefully she will learn a little more about your condition and be more understanding.
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