I hope and pray you find the help you need for your husband. When you are in that kind of pain, it can and does destroy lives. don't settle on just one or two opinions, keep going until an an answer can be found. His pain is real, and don't let some physician tell you any different. People don't act like that because they want to, it is the pain that causes the behavior. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope somebody on this neuro site can direct you to more help. You will find support and compassion here. I wish you both all the best help you can find. ginnie