Don't let them just give him anti-depressants, that doesn't cut it for pain like that. Sometimes it takes a supreme effort to find the doctor that can get to the bottom of the trouble and not just blow you off. I was not depressed before all the pain I went through. Pain can put you in a very bad place indeed. I hope you get that help, and please wish your husband well from me. Keep close as you can to him for support. Take care of yourself too with sleep and all. You are in my thoughts and prayers. ginnie