Think before you leap. Yes, what he is doing sucks. He is a jerk, you know that, but if you leave, is house in half your name? (ladies, I won't buy a house unless it is and we're going on year 34 and DH being pretty good please do this.) Where will you go, do you have any money? Yes, he is a jerk (did I say that already? JERK,JERK,JERK) but would leaving just make things easier for him and harder for you? Think before you jump. Pride (rightful even) can make us do stupid things. Have a plan. ( Did I mention he is an idiot?)