Daisy girl, married 28 years and on your DX day, he wants to fool around? He sounds like a Peter Pan and will never grow up, but maybe worth keeping for laughs.

Start hiring yard people, maid service and a cook. He might just start helping you a little more or go broke..

By all means have a nice talk with him and let him know your fears and that with his help you may be able to stay as independant as possible..