((( Mari )))

yes, there is no fixed period... you will slowly come to terms. it will become less intense, but it is a very personal thing. you may experience smaller waves of it at different times in your life, too. it is all good but it is hard. i am sorry you are going through this.

lyesterday, a world class motorcycle racer lost his life on the track. i just heard the headline blurb in a movie break. i looked up the story. i don't fully know why but it affected me very deeply. i couldn't stop crying. i didn't even know him as a "fan." i lit a candle for him.

continue to find ways to celebrate your friend's life as you mourn his loss.

the motorcyclist died making his dreams come true. he was a vibrant and warm person, and not least, courageous.

(((hugs)))

~ waves ~ of sadness