I'm right there with you. I'm at 8 months now, but still have a long way to go and am dreading that one year anniversary.
It's so hard to not let something define you, when it prevades into every aspect of your life.
I wish you continued progress and success. And the ability to not let it define you in such a big way. (I know easier said than done
Keep on keepin on... you'll get there, we all will