Thank you Dr. Smith and Leesa.

Dr. Smith - Is there a way to move this thread over to another forum?
I haven't yet googled the combo you recommended and hopfully it will show me a workshop. I have found therapists that work with chronic pain and couplse counsling, bu tso far none of them takes insurance, nor have I found a workshop/clinic/retreat intense type therapy session that our therapist has reccommended.

Leesa, thank you for your advice. My husband does go to many of my appointments, but he just blocks them all out now. He blocks out my pain, and focuses on my behavor instead. Its sad - we've both done that to each other. We really need to find a work together and not let tension,stress and my pain and disability get in the way.