I agree with Rrae! You aren't defined by your disabilities.

And how arrogant of her to "diagnose" you!
Thank goodness she's your EX-fiance'. Can you imagine what it would have been like if you had married her? Good grief.
Tho it can be difficult, try not to let what others say about you, bother you. No one knows you completely. Besides, people who judge others are the ones with the most problems.
I wish you the very best! Please take care of yourself & God bless. Hugs, Lee