Pete
your bent from the comments over the issue that first popped out to all of us and it seems to me that their was several topics that could have transpired from your thread. The first one that has been commented on and the second that your dr. didn't see you because they claimed to have not gotten your check.
My thought process is not for you to get bent over the comments. Legalizing is more or less creating havoc for the criminals and those who don't need it. Kind of like banning gun sales. do you think it will stop criminals. No. Just the honest man will not have the right to defend themselve.
Second, maybe the wife was having a bad day. Next time you go in you should speak with your dr. about the reaction from his wife.