Hi,

The next day he went shopping. When I came home from work Monday at 9:30 pm, I saw that he had bought lots of batteries, a flashlight, a new iron, back up toner for my printer, . . .

He's still not ready to talk about what happened, which is just as well as far as I am concerned. I don't have time to deal with his stupid stuff.

The pattern is usually that a few days later we talk about how he felt that I blamed him for the lights going out, . . . how I felt that he attacked me for blaming him, . . .

He needs serious talk therapy.

M