Dear Ginnie,
Bizi started a thread for TotallyLost (aka Carol) to keep things together for her. Here is the link to the thread:
Dear TotallyLost
i hope it's ok that i copied/quoted your post into that thread. it has your name in it... it is clear that it is not from me. but if you prefer, you can repost to Carol's thread yourself, and i'll delete my post with the quote. let me know if you want me to do that.
(((hugs)))
~ waves ~