Yeah Bonnie--I too have often wondered: Why do we have to prove our pain? Do that many people really use it as an escape?. For so very long I was told it was in my head and I woul djust look at them and ask, "Do you really think I would make myself feel this way just for attention?" I have 5 kids and had so many things to do and felt trapped by a body that wasn't allowing me that privilege.

I do realize, there are those out there that do lie, those who just want a med and attention. For one day, I wish they could feel what we do and realize how lucky they are to not hurt.

Good article.