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Originally Posted by Dr. Smith
I was reading that same phrase and wondering if it weren't indicative of feelings of guilt, but not being there to read the body language, it's really hard to tell how to interpret...
Doc
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Yeah, something tells me she feels guilty but is just too much of a coward to apologize for it. Back in June I had a conversation about it with her via text messages. First, I just asked her if she remembered slamming my toe. Initially, she said "Yes, why?" Then, about a minute later (while I was writing my response) she said, "Actually no, but continue." That odd change of mind made me suspicious that she really did remember, but then later said she didn't in order to avoid responsibility. Either way, I don't think the amount of pain she has caused me has ever registered in her mind. She's definitely lacking in the empathy department.
What I find hilarious--and slightly maddening--about this is that if I had done the same thing to her, she would probably be complaining about it non-stop (I have never brought it up around other friends, only the girl and my parents) and would have most likely filed a lawsuit against me. All this aside, she's graduating from college this May, so I won't have to be around her for much longer, thankfully.