I actually get more irritated listening to other people and noises (like the HVAC system on the roof, I'm on the top floor) hence my listening to Tori Amos.

Coupled with the fact that I know all the songs and my brain is attuned to relax when listening to her music.

I know it sounds counter-intuitive, but it works.

BTW, I reduce the volume so it doesn't make it overbearing. Wondering if anyone has similar experiences?