Yes, our mutual friends are from the groups, Arthur and I, both,
attend. You're right about the fact that I shouldn't share things about
him with others in our .groups. And normally, I'd never do that! Thing is, I was so upset about not being able to help him, that, I guess, a couple of our friends could tell that something was wrong with me. So, they asked if I was okay. Anyhow, I told them the truth and told them that I was upset because I really wanted to help our mutual friend, but, didn't know how. That's the reason, Arthur got upset. Because, I went to someone else about him. But, he doesn't understand, I went to others, because, I *want* to help him, so, I was trying to get some suggestions from some friends who, know both of us. He doesn't understand, I did this, because, I *do*, care so much about him!



Phyllis