I hear you loud and clear Ms Addy. I have been cautioned against becoming an isolationist but can't help myself. We are going to a Christmas party at a very old friends house tonight and I dread it!!! Had another long time friend come visit me yesterday, or was it Thursday and I told her she really didn't know me very well. ????? The look on her face said it all. I hate to inflict myself on people I care about. ~sigh

I may have to delete this post...too honest, scares me!