Lit, I have just been approved for SSDI and went down to file for SSI until my checks start coming. Thats when I began to think there might be a problem. I had reported on the function report that i help with him, and that he is very independent and i don't have to do much physically for him. But i didn't go into detail due to limited space. At the time i filed, I had him less. Now that he is here more i have begun to worry because i want to do the right thing. I do not claim him in any way financially. My son takes care of that. His legal address is my son's. I may drive him to school because i don't have to get out of the car for that, but his dad or my ex husband usually pick him up. He's in school all day and goes to bed around 9:30 at night. He showers, dresses himself- will come in after school and make a sandwich before doing his homework etc. He eats whatever dinner I am able to make that night. We do read, play games together. What he gives ME is much more than any small physical output I make for him. I have to call the SSI worker next week, I will talk to her about it at that time. Meantime, I will pray. Thanks.