Most of my hard core traditional family is in heaven now, driving Jesus nuts. My DD has certain traditions that she celebrates for her husband and kids. I tried to keep it going, but after DH died, 8 yrs ago, my matrioch roll changed.

Now we are a very spur of the moment, non traditional Family. We still have lots of fun, but at a non frenzied pace. If something doesnt get done, cleaned or cooked, we don't fly into a nervous breakdown over it.

I actually find it much more relaxing and fun. It's a new tradition for a new age. I like it. No expectations, no disappointments, no fights no worries..