As my sister whispered in my ear when my Dad died and Priest doing eulogy was working with what Evil Stepmother told him and there was no mention of us (his kids) or his 7 grandchildren. As she sensed my growing, useless anger she whispered "It's just one day". Really, it was. I have 46 years of memories. (my neighbor yelled at priest following ceremony, but it really wasn't his fault. It was Evil Stepmother. My revenge, didn't go to her funeral)(Course she was dead and didn't know. But.........)