Dear Jacquie
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Originally Posted by Just Jacquie
For some reason, I had a rough day today; really missing my daughter today. I can't believe that she will be gone a year next month...
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I'm sorry for your pain.
Grief comes in waves. everyone has their own times of healing, but even "objectively" speaking, a year and a month is a short time yet, for the kind of loss you and your husband went through. and holidays invariably cause these things to surface. my thoughts are with you at this time.
perhaps tomorrow will be better already. if not, perhaps you can do some activities or honor your daughter's memories to help you through the pain. i don't know if you would want to involve hubby. depends if you feel it would be more healing or more hurtful for him, considering his particular role in the events, and his current emotional state.
i hope you feel better soon. talk about it here if it helps.
(((hugs)))
~ waves ~