OMG!! i dont have all of ur symptoms but many. i was diagnosed with borderline chiari malformation a few weeks ago. I totally thought my droopy eye was all in my head as with many more of my symtons that i also try to hide. I too have 2 lil guys. 3 and 5. i am an acoholic in recovery and am really stuggling managing my pain. i feel like everyone thinks im faking it! is that crazy? i dont even want to tell my gp my meds arent wrkin cause i think he will think im "drug seeking". hope i didnt share to much