Blaine, you really have done so well. You really saw what this was doing to yourselves and especially your children. Unfortunately, he has not and probably will not change.

When you say you wish you knew what it was that "made me see the light"; you began your recovery. With the help of God, I pray that you will continue on your "road to recovery".

Have a Blessed Christmas. If you do; your children will have one as well.
Ger