You're here because you know its safe ((((Goofy-sis)))) ....
I saw your post on Facebook - and understand how emotional this all must be for you.
In so many ways... I truly hate this time of year. The whole world is happy and sad at the same time.
And I'm trying really hard not to be negative about so many sad things... and simply get through the next few days knowing this, too, shall pass.